This
page is dedicated to delivering news about the dancers
that dance with Stella Cabeca.
There are 8 dancers posted to date.
07/27/10
Heather Malkoff
has her first grandchild October 8, 2009 |
Elinore G. Wellman
September 15, 1929 - October 9, 2009 |
| January 15, 2010 Barbara Fox and her daughter Marci Ketelson |
Barbara Hartzfield's granddaughter Al |
| Gloria Joan
Arco JANUARY 29, 1941-JULY 22, 2008 |
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Amy
Tinoco is now doing Stand-Up Comedy Acts, an internet talk show, Utube videos, and has a book on the market |
On June 22, 2010 another MRI showed no improvement.
Surgery is necessary. Overnight surgery in hospital probably this week,
then 4-6 weeks recovery with physical therapy afterwards. As you know, Karen and Lee suffered the tragic loss of Karen's beloved son, Brian almost two years ago. Information on Brian can be found on Karen's website. The trial of Brian's accused murderer is scheduled in Orlando on December 6, 2010 It means a lot to Karen to have her friends enjoy her son's photos, and read about the tragedy that never should have happened.
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| Elinore Dorothy Gilda, 10th child of 13 children. Married Bob Wellman June 16. 1973 (widowed in 2000) Elinore suffered a stroke September 22, 2009. She will be remembered as the fashionista of the Cove. Her smiling face will be missed in Stella's dance classes and everywhere she went. | |
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Content and Swaddled |
Daddy's First Diaper Duty |
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| "Daddy, don't touch my piggies" | All Clean |
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Hi Everyone --
Just a quick update on an INCREDIBLE week for Al .... Staples out -- hair in! Lookin' good. (See pix). Started using the elliptical trainer this week -- one step closer to Driving again (smiles from both Mom and Al) UR Lax wins in overtime with help from "coach" Al -- JK, but she is enjoying being with the team and going to practice / games Working hard to finish fall semester (paper in progress, final on Friday)
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Green light to return to school - registering for summer classes!! Looking for a summer job..... All in all, PRICELESS!!!!! Thanks for your continued support (emails, phone calls,
cards, food (I P.S. Lizzy is doing great too! Working hard in both school
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| January 15, 2010 Barbara Fox's daughter Marci is back home in Sacramento after spending a year in hospitals and a rehabilitation clinic; she has made and is continuing to make enormous progress both physically and mentally but still needs a caregiver and physical and occupational therapy daily. . Barbara and her family are grateful and thankful that she is recovering and they want to thank everyone for the good wishes and prayers; "they really helped us get through this last, very hard year, thank you" |
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| Barbara
Fox loves mysteries. She is the producer/director of Mystery on the Menu,
an interactive theater company she founded in Washington DC in 1986. She
is the author of two mystery novels and numerous interactive mystery plays
and scripts.
MURDER IN THE INN Hardback-- ISBN 1 58832 044 8 Paperback…ISBN 148832 08555 See her web site http://www.barbarafoxmysteries.com for more
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Stella
Cabeca wishes to congratulate a fellow line dancer, Amy
Tinoco, a Local Puppeteer, Finalist for Minority
Business Woman of the Year and Winner/ Woman of Virtue 2008 LatinBiz
Magazine. 2009 update: Amy Tinoco is now doing Stand-Up Comedy Acts. For dates, go to www.ooopsy.com |
| Amy was also nominated
as Minority Woman Business Owner of the Year 2006. |
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ANTONIA’S STORY AS TOLD BY HER MOTHER:
ANTONIA HAS BEEN DIAGNOSED WITH AN INCURABLE DESEASE IN HER
LEFT HAND. THE DESEASE IS REFLEX SYMPATHETIC DYSTROPHY ( R.S.D.). THIS CAN
BE RESEARCHED ON GOOGLE.
THE STORY GOES LIKE THIS............................
ABOUT 4 YEARS AGO ANTONIA COMPLAINED OF A PAIN IN HER LEFT HAND. IT LOOKED
FINE, NO SWELLING OR REDNESS...NOTHING. ANTONIA SPENT A LOT OF TIME ON THE
PHONE CALLING FRIENDS....I THOUGHT PERHAPS THIS WAS CAUSING THE PROBLEM, SO
I BOUGHT HER A HEAD SET
BY AND BY THE PAIN WENT AWAY AND WE ALL RETURNED TO OUR LIVES
ABOUT 9 MONTHS LATER THE SAME PAIN RETURNED.... AFTER SOME THOUGHT I WAS SURE,
THIS TIME, IT WAS DUE TO HER SPENDING TOO MUCH TIME ON THE COMPUTER.......
SO I LIMITED HER TIME TO 30 MINS ON 30 MINS OFF.....
SHE WAS NOT HAPPY, BUT....THE WENT AWAY WITHIN A FEW WEEKS
SHE WAS ALWAYS ON THE PHONE AND THE COMPUTER AT THE SAME
MULTI-TASKING (SHE WAS ALSO LISTENING TO COUNTRY MUSIC )
WELL, WOULDN'T YA'LL KNOW IT CAME BACK......THIS TIME I TOOK HER TO THE DR.
HE SENT HER FOR AN X-RAY.............IT WAS NEGATIVE, BUT SHE CONTINUED TO
BE IN SO MUCH PAIN..I ASKED THE DR. WHAT I SHOULD DO ABOUT HER ALWAYS WANTING
TO WEAR A BRACE...EVEN TO BED. HE SAID TO LET HER WEAR IT, SO SHE DID.
WELL THAT WAS ABOUT NOVEMBER 2005.....
CHRISTMAS CAME AND WENT. THE SAME WITH NEW YEARS.. EASTER... AND ONE DAY,
RIGHT OUT OF THIN AIR, SHE SAID I THINK I'LL TAKE OFF MY BRACE..WOW!
I WAS HAPPY LIFE WENT ON....
HOWEVER, IN AUGUST OF 2007 IT CAME BACK...I TOOK HER TO THE DR., HE DIDN'T
KNOW WHAT TO DO..
------- I TOOK HER TO HER CANADIAN DOCTORS ------
NOW I DID THIS MOSTLY BECAUSE THEY HAVE KNOWN HER SINCE SHE WAS BORN, ALMOST,
SHE WAS BORN IN ENGLAND, AND HER HEALTH INSURANCE IS COVERED.
PLEASE BEAR IN MIND THIS TIME AROUND SHE WAS IN AGONY!
WE HAVE A HOUSE IN UP-STATE NEW YORK AND WE ALL HEADED FOR THERE.
WE GOT AN APPOINTMENT. WITH HER BONE DR. AND IT WAS THEN HE SAID SHE HAD R.S.D.
HOWEVER, THAT WOULD HAVE TO BE CONFIRMED BY A NEUROLOGIST FOR HER TO RECEIVE
MEDICAL TREATMENT FROM THE PAIN DR.......
.....TURNS OUT WE WOULD NOT BE ABLE TO SEE THE PAIN DR. FOR 6 MONTHS..
I CALLED DOWN TO MIAMI AND MY DR. SAID HE WILL GET HER IN TO A PAIN DR. DOWN
HERE WITHION A MONTH.....SO WE PACKED EVERYTHING UP AND HEADED BACK TO MIAMI.
SURE ENOUGH WITHIN A MONTH WE WERE IN TO SEE THE PAIN DR.
IT WAS THEN WE STARTED AN 8 WEEK PROGRAM OF A NEEDLE IN HER NECK TWICE A WEEK,
THE NEEDLE WAS TO, HOPEFULLY, START UP THE NERVES IN HER HAND..
ANTONIA WAS PUT OUT FOR THIS PROCEDUER SO SHE COULDN'T EAT THE NIGHT BEFORE
AFTER 9 AND NOTHING BY MOUTH THE DAY OF THE SURGERY..THE DAY AFTER THE SURGERY
SHE FELT QUITE ILL AND THE NEXT DAY WE WOULD START ALL OVER AGAIN PREPARING
FOR THE NEXT DAYS SURGERY.............
AFTER 8 WEEKS OF THIS SHE WAS NO BETTER AND WAS VERY DISAPPOINTED
ACTUALLY THE PAIN DR. SAID AT THIS POINT HE WASN'T EVEN SURE IT WAS R.S.D.
HE REFERED US TO THE SYLVESTER CANCER CLINIC OF MIAMI ( JMH)
THOSE DR'S SAID IT IS R.S.D. AND THEY WOULD LIKE TO PLACE A CATHETER IN HER
SPINE
SO ANTONIA COULD SELF ADMINISTER ELECTOMAGNETIC WAVES FROM THROUGH HER SPINE
TO HER HAND .....WELL.... BY THIS TIME 6 MONTHS WAS ALMOST UP AND I TOOK ANTONIA
BACK TO CANADA........ JUNE 4th 2007
SHE IS UNDERGOING INTENSE PHYSIOTHERAPY
A NURSE COMES EVERYDAY, FOR 2 HOURS, TO BATHE HER
SHE ALSO HAS A COMPANION TO TAKE HER SHOPPING OR TO THE MOVIES ETC,.
(4 HOURS A WEEK)
SHE DOES NOT SLEEP WELL AND OFTEN LEAVES THE ROOM TO CRY
________ I MISS HER SO MUCH _________
THE R.S.D. NET WORK DESCRIBES THE PAIN LEVEL OF THE ILLNESS AS FOLLOWS
LEVEL 3 IS BACK PAIN
LEVEL 2 IS CHILD BIRTH
LEVEL 1 IS REFLEX SYMPATHETIC DYSTROPHY.
ANTONIA IS STAYING WITH HER DAD IN CANADA.
HE WORKS AND SHE IS VERY MUCH ALONE DURING THE DAY.
SHE WRITES TO PEOPLE SHE KNOWS, BUT THEY DON'T WRITE HER BACK
IF ANY ONE WOULD LIKE TO WRITE HERE IS THE ADDRESS
ANTONIA PATRICK HER TELEPHONE NUMBER
13 JAMES STREET 1(613) 342 1518
P.O. BOX 116
LYN, ONTARIO
CANADA HER E-MAIL
K6V 1MO ANTONIAPATRICK@HOTMAIL.COM
I ALSO WOULD ASK FOR YOU TO PRAY FOR ANTONIA
SHE IS IN A GREAT DEAL OF PAIN AND TRIES TO HIDE IT FROM US ALL
EVERY HOUR OF EVERY DAY .
AND WHILE SHE IS NO SAINT SHE SURE IS ....... A STAR .........
I WOULD LIKE TO THANK YOU STELLA FOR YOUR CONCERN AND EFFECTION FOR ANTONIA
I KNOW YOU TWO ARE GREAT PALS.
Your truly, Susan,
ANTONIA'S MOMMY
ANTONIA’S STORY AS TOLD BY STELLA CABECA:
Antonia spent most of her childhood in a wheelchair with physical
disabilities and was also legally blind. However, due to multiple surgeries
and her love of country music and her determination, Antonia was able to start
to walk, and shortly after that she took her first dance steps on my dance
floor in North Miami Beach. It took me awhile to realize that she could barely
see. I watched in awe as she would sometimes wheel in her chair to the classes
and then come to life on the dance floor. She line danced with me for a few
years; most weeks I would pick her up at home on Thursdays and we would go
together and dance all day 10 to 12 hours a day .We would sing at the top
of our voices to our favorite songs; she would sing every country song and
knew all the words and sang from her heart. Her little body was exhausted
at the end of the day and I could see the pain in her face as she walked to
her door.
Antonia touched my heart and made my life makes sense and all my struggles
worth while. Watching her push her body beyond its limits, her smile, her
laughter, her love of music and dance, of life itself, was the joy of my life.
SHE WAS AND IS MY BRIGHTEST SHINNIG STAR DANCER.
Antonia had a nasty fall December 29, 2006 and has been in
a wheel chair ever since. This has nothing to do with her left hand other
than perhaps if her hand was not in a brace maybe she would never have fallen.
Now back in her wheelchair at 22 her days are spent in constant pain and depression,
please give her a call or drop a card in the mail to her. Send a letter or
e-mail and let her know you care and give her your support and help to shine
a light back in her heart and give her hope, to some day join us again on
the dance floor.
My journey through life from where I came from, to where I am today has been
a long and difficult journey. I always knew whatever I did with my life I
wanted to help others, to make them happy to see them smile, to raise their
spirit and souls if only for a fleeting moment. I lived and survived for that
very purpose and people like Antonia make my life mean so much more than I
ever thought it would.
We love you Antonia-your dance teacher and friend always Stella Cabeca